Life is a juggling act, especially for Gen Xers squeezed between boomerang kids and aging parents. Feeling the pressure? You're not alone. Multigenerational living is a hot trend for good reason; but, before you unfurl the welcome mat, let's talk about the good, the not-so-bad, and how to make it a win for everyone.

Imagine daily giggles with your folks and the heartwarming sight of your kids bonding with their grandparents. Multigenerational living can create a richer, more vibrant home environment, as well as a built-in support system, filling your home with laughter and helping hands. Need childcare or help with that never-ending to-do list? Parents can be lifesavers! In return, you can be their tech wiz, lend a hand with everyday tasks, and ease the burden of home maintenance. Sharing expenses also makes things more affordable, leaving extra cash for fun family trips and experiences.

Of course, there can be a few bumps in the road. Open communication and healthy boundaries are key. From music volume to housekeeping styles, differences can pop up. Setting ground rules and a flexible mindset are key ingredients. If you are considering embarking on multigenerational living, here are some things to keep in mind as you plan.

Space planning is key when designing an in-law apartment. Limiting or eliminating stairs for aging parents is, of course, a consideration. Sound attenuation is another factor. Providing an extra layer of insulation or thicker walls between spaces can help mitigate sound, whether it’s tiny feet stomping from above, boisterous kiddos in the room next door, or hard-of-hearing nana using speakerphone for all her calls.

Consider layouts that can accommodate walkers and wheelchairs if and when necessary. Wider doorways and aisles, as well as curbless showers, grab bars, and taller toilets can ease the process of aging in place. Kitchen cabinets with pullout drawers and sliding barn-style doors can also extend the independence of loved ones.

Finally, think about elements that can be shared versus those that are better separated: main entrances, kitchens, laundry areas. How much separation and/or comingling is ideal? Are utilities going to be shared. Some older folks crank the heat to tropic-like temperatures, and that can drive up utility bills substantially. Finally, seperate outdoor spaces or gardening areas can also be convenient and give everyone some privacy outside. Sometimes creating these separate physical spaces can help to enforce healthy boundaries and provide privacy when its wanted or needed.

Multigenerational living can be a beautiful way to create lasting memories and strengthen family bonds. We’ve designed spaces to fit the needs of families seeking a variety of living arrangements, whether permanent, short term, or intermittent. By planning effectively and keeping communication open, you can create a harmonious home that benefits everyone. Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all solution. Happy harmonizing!